What Every First-Time Camp Parent Should Know Before Sending Their Son to Camp Shohola

Sending your son to overnight camp for the first time is a big step, for both of you. As exciting as the adventure sounds, it’s perfectly normal to feel a bit anxious when preparing for the unknown. That’s why we’ve put together some practical first-time camp parent tips based on years of experience working with families throughout the Mid-Atlantic and Northeast U.S. At Camp Shohola for Boys, we’re here to support you, and your camper, every step of the way.

Whether you’re days away from packing or still deciding if he’s ready, these tips will help make the experience smoother, more joyful, and memorable for both of you.

Start the Conversation Early

Don’t wait until the week before camp to bring it up. Begin talking about camp casually and positively, share stories, look through the camp website together, and point out photos or videos that show real campers in action.

Let your son ask questions and express any excitement or uncertainty. The more familiar the idea becomes, the more confident he’ll feel on opening day.

Involve Your Son in Packing

Helping with packing gives campers a sense of ownership and helps them keep track of their belongings. Go through the packing list together, label everything, and explain where items will go once he arrives.

If you can, do a fun “camp night” at home, test out the flashlight, practice making the bed with a sleeping bag, and talk about what a typical camp evening might feel like.

Normalize Homesickness

Even the most independent boys can miss home. It’s completely normal, and in most cases, it passes quickly. What helps most is talking about it before camp begins, letting your son know it’s okay to feel that way, and reassure him that he’ll have people there to support him.

Try to avoid saying things like, “If you don’t like it, I’ll come get you.” That makes it harder for kids to push through the first few days. Instead, tell him you believe in his ability to adjust, and that having fun might take a little time.

Send Letters (And Keep Them Light)

Mail from home is a highlight for many campers. Pack a few pre-addressed envelopes in his bag, and plan to send upbeat, encouraging letters while he’s away.

Focus on asking what he’s doing at camp instead of sharing what he’s missing at home. A cheerful letter with a joke, a photo, or a quick update can mean the world.

Let Camp Work Its Magic

You might catch glimpses through camp photos, but rest assured, your son is in good hands with trained staff who support him daily, while giving him room to grow on his own terms.

It’s normal to miss him, but camp gives boys a chance to stretch their independence in ways that are hard to replicate at home. Most parents are amazed at how much their son grows in just a few short weeks.

Reach Out to the Camp Team

Our staff is here to support first-time families. Whether you have questions about medications, special routines, or how to prepare your son emotionally, you’re always welcome to contact us before or during camp.

For families in the Mid-Atlantic and Northeast U.S., we’re within driving distance, and always available by phone or email.

One Last Thing: It’s a Gift

It’s completely normal to feel nervous, but most parents say it was one of the best decisions they made for their child’s confidence and growth.

Your son will come home with stories, new friendships, and a little more independence than when he left. And that’s the kind of transformation that sticks.

Want to Learn More?

If you’re a first-time parent looking for a camp that understands how big this moment is, Camp Shohola for Boys is here to help.

Serving the Mid-Atlantic and Northeast U.S., we create unforgettable summers rooted in fun, character-building, and growth. Whether your son is 7 or 16, we’ll help him find his place, and thrive.

Reach out today to request our parent guide, speak with a director, or enroll in the session that fits your schedule. We’d be honored to be part of your family’s first summer camp experience.